End Of An Era

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So, news. Big news, in fact. I’ve done something monumental last week: I let go of my budgies, after sharing quarters with 2-6 feathery friends for the past 10 years.

The short version is that it was the right thing to do for them. After I lost so many birds between 2015 and 2016, my heart was so thoroughly broken I couldn’t face getting more budgies and then potentially losing them again. So I just got the one new companion for my Tracey (and hit gold: she and Tino have the sweetest love you could imagine). They were happy with each other, and yet. And yet.

Budgies are flock birds. My house is way too quiet, especially lately with me working in my job all day and then on my business all evening. I work on the phone / Skype, so I can’t do it in their room, they’d get so chirpy I couldn’t hear myself think. And because they were alone so much, they slept a lot. It’s just not right for budgies, who live in flocks of tens of thousands in their native Australia.

It took me months until I actually reached out to find someone who’d take them and who’d live up to my insane standards. But I found the perfect place for them, in a friend’s garden aviary. He’s a show-budgie breeder and clearly adores the birds, and they live in a budgie paradise – well, click the video above and see for yourself. Tracey and Tino were so excited and chirpy when they got there, I knew at once that I’d made the right decision. But gods, do I miss them. So very much, every morning when I wake up to silence, every time I come home wanting to rush upstairs, every evening when I go to bed without saying good night to them…

Tracey and Tino

I’m firmly trying to focus on the advantages, like my new-found freedom. For the first time in 10 years, I’ll be able to travel without worrying about the birds! In 8 years, I’ve never been away for more than 2 or 3 nights in a row. Now I can go for as long as I like, or stay overnight somewhere spontaneously. It’ll be brilliant! At least that’s what I tell myself.

The theory will be put to the test in four weeks – oh my gods, four weeks! – because that’s when I’ll finally go to Canada for nearly a week! I can’t even afford that, but any less would be ridiculous, and it’s a whole lot better than nothing. I’ll rent a car and drive all around Nova Scotia, which in case you didn’t know, is a gorgeous province in the far South-East of the country and nearly the size of Ireland. I’ve spent so much time on their tourism website that the other day, a chat popped up and a friendly tourist guide asked me if I needed help finding anything. I asked if they had a Tardis that would fast-forward me to my holidays (she laughed).

To give you an idea… it really does look beautiful!


Generally, the people there seem to be completely lovely, from the guy running the B&B I’ll be staying in (we spoke on the phone and I don’t think he realises that I picture him as Barliman Butterbur at the Prancing Pony), to the Bowhunters who host the 3D shoot I’ll participate in when I’m there.

WAAAAAAH I can’t wait!! Did I mention I’m excited?

I promise there’ll be a boatload of pictures when I get back. If I get back, and don’t “accidentally” miss my flight home. Not like I have any cutest to come home to, sniff.

That’s it from me this week – take care, and enjoy the waxing moon! I’ll talk to you in a few.

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10 thoughts on “End Of An Era

  1. backtomoonfaery

    I feel your heartbreak about the budgies…. What you did took incredible strength and courage and you should be proud of yourself. Putting their well-being first is beautiful. I still cross my fingers that one day you’ll have your own garden aviary ☺️
    And Canada!!! Wow!!! You will have a blast and it will be a trip to remember for the rest of your life! Enjoy it, to the absolute fullest!!! Big big hugs!!

    1. It was the hardest thing I’ve done, other than leaving Ireland in ’93. It’s true though, I still plan on having a bird sanctuary one day! Just not while I’m still renting and moving around all the time.

      The holidays can’t arrive fast enough, woohoo! Big hugs back!!

  2. I understand that it’s really hard, so a big hug to you. Fortunately, it looks like they’re enjoying their new surroundings.

    Nova Scotia looks amazing. I’m sure you’ll have an amazing vacation there and please bring home lots of pictures.

  3. Inga

    I’m sorry you’re hurting, love! I know it wasn’t an easy decision and I respect you so much for making it, doing what was best for them, even knowing how much it would hurt you.

    Have a WONDERFUL time in Canada! Big hulder-hugs to my horrible Hag!

    1. Thank you ❤ It was time, after dragging them around from one place to another in the insanity which is renting in Ireland, to give them a happy, stable home.

      I hope I'll get to talk to you before I go! Give me a shout if you're around Galway, or on Skype some time. Hag hugs!!

  4. Tracey Lee

    Super enormous hugs. What a hard thing to do. I know exactly how you feel as I rehomed my birdie menagerie a few years ago too. The things we do for love. Xoxo

    1. Oh gods, yes in that case you would know exactly how it feels. It had to be done! At least they are happy now, as I’m sure are yours. Hugs back!!

  5. Krista Geek

    I cried when I saw the video. I was really worried about you for a bit until I read this post. It’s a tough decision. I hope you have a great time on the East Coast. ❤

    1. ❤ It's so hard being without them, but every time I think of how ecstatic they were meeting the others, I can't help smiling.
      In four weeks I'll be there! I swear time has slowed down to a crawl.

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